The part of our reading I found most interesting was the part addressing parasocial relationships with celebrities. Of all the celebrity deaths of 2016, the one that provoked the greatest display of public mourning in my corner of the Internet was easily Carrie Fisher. Just scrolling through her Tumblr tag for about five minutes, I came across these three posts. Clearly, all three of these people feel a deep connection to her, whether as a motivating force or a parental figure (two posts refer to her as “space mom,” which is a common title of hers on the Internet).



Sherlock describes these relationships as based on “false feelings of authenticity and intimacy” (168), and I want to push back on that assessment a little bit. She quotes another scholar who claims that an online or public presence is “an artificial build-up of ‘personality'” (168).
Carrie Fisher’s online presence is hilarious and authentic. Her tweets do not look like they have been approved by a publicist. I’ve included one of my favorite’s below.

Either Carrie has a crazy good publicist who manages to craft a perfectly unpolished, authentic presence on Twitter, or she’s just tweeting away of her own accord.
Additionally, she’s written two memoirs that honestly document her experiences with mental illness and addiction (I only read part of Wishful Drinking, and that was years ago, but I remember that it was extremely funny).
Do these Tumblr users have an actual, mutual relationship with Carrie Fisher? Of course not. But I think it’s unfairly dismissive to claim every celebrity’s social media presence is inauthentic. I think Carrie sparked such an enormous display of grief not only because she portrayed such an iconic character, but because she was unapologetically herself. She aged unapologetically. She was mentally ill unapologetically. Seeing someone own everything about themselves, even the messy parts, allows us to do the same. I think about the following tweet a lot in reference to celebrity deaths.

In other words, I’m not trying to claim that parasocial relationships are the same thing as true, mutual relationships. But I do disagree with this somewhat dismissive, cynical view of celebrities’ personas as inherently crafted and inauthentic. Sherlock acknowledges that these feelings are not necessarily false “just because they are based on a falsity” (169), so she does acknowledge the significance of these relationships, but I don’t believe that they were were necessarily based on a falsity in the first place. I think what makes Carrie Fisher, and others like her, stand out is the authenticity of their public personas.











